Be prepared for your husband to try to negotiate directly with you on this, plus be PISSED about it.
Puppy
You mean when he tries to negotiate with me afterwards or on the side, or actually during mediation? He doesn't think I'm smart and thinks I'm weak, and he may be in for a surprise, don't cha think? How does mediation usually go? My L didn't say anything, just asked me 500 questions. Do the Ls talk and the mediator. Can I just sit there and say yes or no or whatever? I'm confused!
Why do you think he'll be pissed? I mean b/c he prob. won't get everything he wants (I anticipate the same of course).