Hmmm...I wonder if I should put some of these new rules in an email and send it her way.

I was thinking about writing something about the ch13 yesterday along the lines of, "I know you're not happy about me redoing the ch13 but from all indications there really isn't an 'us' anymore and I need to take care of my needs. No harm intended. It's just business."

"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh