I know it's horrible; I'll be all bummed after my mediation Monday I'm sure, but right now I'm feeling like I'm a runner almost at the finish line of a marathon or something. I'm really going to be glad to get over all this, and settle into almost-normal life hopefully. Do you have some of that yet?

Ok, that "friend" sucks, and doesn't sound like a good friend to you anyway. So now you don't have to waste time on them anymore. One thing I've seen is that most people are really supportive of me in my sitch (which I've always thought is a lot like yours), and my H has a couple of immature, self-centered losers who are supportive of him. Woo hoo for him. Personally, if someone is friends with your W, you should probably steer well clear of them. Sad, but true...Karen


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