(((glam)))
I am so sorry. I know this has to be devastating especially with how much you have put up with. I am sure more will be revealed in time...try to breathe, try to relax if you can. Hopefully you will be able to get the truth finally. Maybe it will force your H to take down the walls he has had up and then you can figure out where to go from there.

I found out my first H had a baby with an OW. I was in shock. I was 9 months pregnant at the time. You will make it through this no matter what this reveals.

I am praying for you.