Write that book. Start now. Get her out of the house and out of your head. She is one of the snakes at this point.

Wish I could help more directly. I am so sorry you are going through this.

Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08,
S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.