Your home should be A) your sanctuary and B) a mystery to them. For now, keep them out.
I mean, for all they know, maybe you don't want them to go in because there is another woman eating breakfast in the dining room - none of their business. I mean, I am not saying to do that (especially with your kids there), but let them wonder.
Especially if your W is dating.
The hand-off is at the curb.
Last edited by Thinker; 06/26/0903:52 PM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.