Mishka, that is fantastic advice thank you! I will really take it on board. I will zone out and try not to get into it wiht people, it is impossible to change peoples minds about him by telling them. That is so nice of your friend!
MsM, also really excellent advice, thank you. I agree with you totally, I guess I hadn't thought of it that way. That he can never move back to this place. I pondered on that one in my lunch hour!
