Lamby - yeah, Lucky is right...I do tend to "know" when a sitch sounds good. I have literally read 1000's of people's stories over the past 5 years on many different relationship message boards, and over time you can weed out who is going to "make it" and who isn't. You see patterns in how people are dealing with their "stuff" and this is how I get clues as to what might happen. Your pattern just shows that you are going to make it in this journey, so I had to give you that pep talk. But just wanted you to know, it is based on my own personal research of 1000's of situations. Its not all just puff and smoke guessing (although some of it is delved from my magic 8 ball...hee hee).
