I tried at first to talk to him about D and S's feelings but he said that they will be fine! That was when he first left!!! Those words are his step-mother's words, TRUST ME!
He did go to a couple of our D's Counseling appts. and her C told him that she was depressed, sad, and suffering from anxiety but he never said anything!! Even when I told her C that his step-mother said it was her hormones and not the cause of his leaving! Our D's C said it was NOT her hormones and that this is affecting her big time and probably the same with my S!!!
When we had the hearing for contempt for him not attending the counseling sessions, drinking and driving (with D in car), and H not spending his alloted time with her he dropped all visitation and dropped his attending counseling with our D!!!
Like I said before he didn't even go into the hearing his step-mother and Lawyer did!!! Since then his lawyer dropped him I'm assuming because he was lying to her about taking his meds., going to our D's counseling etc.!!!
I mean guys how the hell do you Dbust when he has completely wiped us all out of his life for the past 7 weeks???
Dday, don't know if he has someone now or not so I guess that is why I don't know whether to wait or not!! I do want my marriage back so bad!! I love him very much!
I don't know what I would do if I was in your position! And I give you credit for not putting up with it when she does realize what she gave up and wants to come back!!! Because you never know, she might just do that!!
