Thank you so much. I definitely feel lucky that I am working towards identifying the root of my "discontent" which could have, after months / years of festering, worsened significantly. I think H and I have very little sexual resentments to work through ... it honestly just dawned on me that this is part of what has been making me so unhappy lately. Here we GO - going to get through as much of SSM today as possible - and hopefully picking up Passionate Marriage later today.