Hi Glam, I am so sorry this has happened on top of everything else you have endured for the last 3 years. I know nothing about the legal side of things but it makes no sense to have those kind of paers sent to you. Was the letter addressed to him or you? Why did it not go to where he lives? I hope you get some answers, can you not ring them yourself at least you would get the truth and not your H's version of it. Even if it is not what you want to hear I always feel better knowing the truth. Could it all be a mistake?
Take care. It would explain his MIA behaviour and all the secrecy and then you can take stock. Surely he now sees the need to be honest. Depression aside if it is true he obviously wasn't that depressed at some time or other. Hugs ((())) you must be devastated.
