New day, new start.

Started my new hours at my full time job to prep me for the prospective part timeer.

Feel a little less dizzy, but the whole thing is still front and center in my mind and won't go away.

XW put the boys up to another investigative phone call last night,However this time, I could hear her happily trying to encourage S11 "hey, your father is on the phone, go talk to him!" . Then afterward, she actually texted me directly for the first time in a while asking if I had a pair of S12's shorts. Iread this as trying to make small talk. I replied back later on that yes he had left an outfit to be washed as it was 90 degree heat last weekend and no power/no a/c, so I wasn't going to send back a smelly unclean outfit.

She didn't reply. So to test the water and see if she was around, and to comply with the settlement agreement, I texted again to say that I had not received any COBRA info on my insurance which she is off of Tuesday. She did reply quickly that "it is ok, I have my own now through work", and that was it for the night.

I don't know. The calls all week have been precisely timed at the same time everyday, alotting so much time beofre OM 'gets home'.

I'm just going to ride the weekend out, and let it be what it is and calm down, get some stuff done around the house before I start the other job.

My gut just says, she is coming around. I don't know why and more importantly as always in dealing with who she is now, is should I believe it?


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11