HSS,

I'm so sorry to hear about the wedge between you and your son.

Now that my D is final, I'm in the same boat, mater of fact the situation the same, I was left, I stayed in the house, I lost the kids, the whole 9 yards.

Your son, like both of mine, is old enough to one day see through to the truth, and some day he will. For now, it hurts like hell, yes it does, I know. But, also as a child of a broken family myself, know what I say is true, and some day, your son WILL know you are not the 'bad guy' here.

One thing tho: "I told him the turtles were his responsibility and soon the other 4 will be dead, he has to bury this one. He said Kiss my ass. Great to hear from your child, huh?'

Umm, a lot can lost in translation of written word, and reading how what you wrote here is worded, that came off pretty cold (borderline bitchy) on your end and deserved a cold response in return. I highly suggest you call him and clarify your intent.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11