PLEASE don't date if there is ANY chance you will take your wife back yet again...PLEASE.
His wife is NOT coming back until he lets go. REPEAT...
UNTIL he lets go she is NOT coming back.
NO MATTER HOW LONG A PERSON WAITS to date, there is NO guarantee that one of the daters isn't going to be hurt.
Are you trying to keep this man from being happy?
He is perfectly fine NOW. Just the way he is. IF he isn't ready to date another person who DOES like him, he most certainly isn't ready to get back with his wife or date her while she doesn't want him.....
Get real people. We can talk all day about what "could" happen and on and on and on...
They COULD fall in love and be perfect for each other also....
Time to move on AFWAW.. It is time. Long overdue. Quit doing this to yourself and go for the gusto. Time to start making yourself happy. Quit wallowing in the mud.
She isn't coming back until you let go. It can't work until you let go. She won't love you in the way you want until you let go. She can't respect you deep inside because you won't grow a backbone and tell her you have had ENOUGH. You will earn INSTANT respect when you let go.
Sorry you are so blinded that you can't see these obvious truths....
