Long time since I have heard from you. Hope you are doing well.
I understand what Mike, WT and you are saying to me and I will be working on being more assertive. I guess I have been waiting for something from her that lets me know that she is comfotable with our R and is ready to move forward but what it seems everyone is saying is that how will I know unless I keep testing the water. And I need to do it without any expectations or without getting offended if the response is negative.
The other night we went to the movies and I placed my hand on her leg and she did not move away. Its something I need to do more of while we are watching tv or taking walks as others have suggested.
As for the sex part. Its not that I want her to jump my bones I would like her to just come to bed and be with me. Just laying there snuggling with me is fine. I have told he that on many occasions that I do not expect sex from her at all until she is ready.
