Is she on meds, and if so is she taking them? Have you talked to her doctor about the depression?
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
This could be a big part of the problem. Do you two share the same doctor? If so talk to him/her about the depression. I wouldn't talk to her about it though, she will probably get very defensive and angry.
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
I confronted her on meds. Swears she is still taking them, and I am pretty sure she is, pretty sure that is what I saw her doing about 2 days ago also.
That's good. What do you think is the cause of her behavior?
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
Wife came home late from work today. Didn't call, didn't say why she was late when she got home. I did good though. Normally I would ask her where she had been and why she didn't call. Today I said nothing. It was very hard and I was angry but I did it. She just came in, didn't speak, and then went upstairs. Normally I would have said something but I was cool. I wonder if she noticed that I didn't say anything?
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
"It is excruciating pain. It is the pain of separation, the pain of loss, the pain of dreams and expectations unrealized. It is the loss and death of a mirage."
That my friend, is the hard part. I'm working on it though and getting better at it.
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
It gets easier every day. We all need to focus on ourselves more in all of our present and future relationships and stop trying so hard to mind read and wonder.
"It is excruciating pain. It is the pain of separation, the pain of loss, the pain of dreams and expectations unrealized. It is the loss and death of a mirage."
