I don't think your thinking is messed up at all. I think your W is lucky to have you - just don't forget that.
You may just get a beautiful child out of this mess.
In answer to healthy dad....GH has worked SO hard on himself already. Perhaps he is TOO nice now to her that she walks all over him. Well until the baby arrives there needs to be some sort of equilibrium.
I totally agree that his W probably doesn't like herself.....and she just can't run far enough away from herself. That's not GH's problem. He needs to stay calm and focused and get things ready for the arrival of his baby.
GH, I think you are being amazing.
(((((hugs)))))))
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
