It's MY life now!!!........

[Silent Chrleader]

I am doing much better than the past couple days. H called tonight while I was on the phone and I didn't stop to take his call. At his VM request, I did call him back and discussed status of the medical savings for my root canal.

We also talked about S18, his plans for the dream house, and my concerns for "unforseen problems" in "the plan". It was a very good talk actually. Very cordial (almost friendly!) and I feel much better about my security issues......and I think H feels much better to because I assured him of my understanding of the "cash bind" he will be in during his Ch 13, and my appreciation of his generosity it helping me keep this house, and I will get it at the end of the 5 years at which time it will only have 5-6 years left on the mortgage, and by then the loan on my retirement will be paid so I can afford the payments. He has promised that if he changes his Will (which he doesn't plan to do at this point), he will keep it in the Will that I get this house, thus assuring my security. I have assured him that when I talk about the work needed on this house, I understand that I will likely have to pay necessary cash outlay needed for materials as his money will be "tied up". I also told him that I would notify him if I happen to get any bonuses in those years and "share the wealth" as is only fair. Yep, a very good conversation, in all aspects.......even if I don't want the D.

I am feeling pretty good and even optimistic right now.......I hope it lasts!