Hey Hopeful, good for you on the detaching. You will continue to have ups and downs with it, but dont let that throw you, its normal.
Dont 'act' at all with h, just be your wonderful self who has been looking at herself and is working on changes.
Mine stayed in my bed for 7 months after the bomb, stayed in the house for another 14 months. So, who knows that they are thinking?
It took me a very looonggg time to stop myself from trying to figure out what it all meant.
Just keep moving forward. Remember, no expectations, GAL, No relationship talks and continue to work on becoming the person YOU want to be. That is really what this is all about.
