Gotta chime in here....I agree with Dance Queen! 27 year old hotties are people too. They have wants and needs of someone just starting out in life, i.e. marriage, babies, etc. Often needs that don't "gel" with 40 yr old men. As a former 27 yr old hottie that married the 40 year old, I can say firsthand that these May-Dec. relationships only work well for the "older" person. The young lady, unless she's just playing ya, will get hurt. Not to mention the reaction of your 13 old daughter...the "hottie" is only twice her age.
You're getting good advice on dealing with WAW. Please don't use 27 year old hotties to prop up your mojo. There are better ways! I'm cheering for ya...c'mon man!