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[GH31]

Hey Wolverine,

Thanks for dropping by my thread.

I am struck by what you write here:

She works but doesn't really contribute consistently to the household financially.

What does she do with her money then? Where does it go?

There used to be a time when she would die to go on vacation. Now all she cares about is her job.

Has she always done this type of job? Listen, I don't mean to spook you but have you ever suspected she might be having an EA (Emotional Affair) with someone at her workplace? Do no ask her directly but I would suggest doing a bit of digging around to determine whether an affair is in progress. You won't be able to stop it from happening but your approach to DBing will have to change in this case.

My wife has done many of the things that you refer to, i.e. acting like I don't exist. E.g. we took a a few trips to places last year and W said "I was in such and such place this last weekend" when we were takling to people. It's very tragic. Does she ever seem inexplicably happy or "high" in a brittle way, then really depressed the next?

Dig around and let us know how you are tracking.