Hi Kara, Yeah......I don't really get it. The only thing that I can say is that we started our R with me needing a lot of support from him. What I am hearing from him is that he is not able to break that cycle bc as long as we are married he feels he needs to take care of me.
Its a lot of BS...but, there is some truth to it. I think I have helped him a lot as well......just in a different way.
I am going to have to do some reading about MLC. Any suggestions anyone??
Also, he has not called me to let me know he reached.....should I call to make sure? My gut is saying he is trying to detach and if I call, it will make it easier.....cuz he will feel like a husband being checked up on by his wife. Its stupid bc on his way here, he called me when he checked in and then again inbtw his one connecting flight. And now nothing. A quick text saying he made it would have sufficed. But, oh well. I should let him just be, right??
