Thanks! Mach1 has been helpful... I feel like I've found a "home" on this board - there are so many helpful folks...
I am getting used to the marathon. I have days where I think - Oh I'll bring this up to H when he comes over later, maybe we can talk about it...
Then I remember my DB lessons and think no - I'll save it for MC I have much more fun being happy when H comes around, like it doesn't matter that he doesn't live here any more. And dressing up and looking cute (as I can at eight months pregnant!) and doing new things, meeting new people...
And I find that if I DO keep my expectations of H low, I tend to be pleasantly surprised once in a while.
I have so much to concentrate on... just with chasing my little girl and popping out this other one.
I am looking at some non-credit courses at a local community college right now. Silversmithing I saw a cute ring on Etsy I thought about buying for myself, and thought "How neat would it be to be able to make that?" and, ten weeks of having one evening all to MYSELF!
Mach1 has been helpful... 
