Beginnersmind and Brokenhearted,

I can't thank you both enough for your advice and encouragement. I'm turning in early tonight but I will respond with more in the next day or 2.

BH - you put alot of effort and heart into that post. I need to read it many more times. I've done some research as well about "romantic" affairs and I've also read Private Lies and checked out the Marriage Builders website.

Please return to read and post more when you have time.

Thank you ladies!


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10