But in terms of him, I think we are also facing a PE issue that is very frustration for him (and ME!!!). I think at first it was due to his lack of experience but I think that it continues b/c of his inability / unwillingness to explore how to avoid it.
As DQ says, this is not the right time to work this particular problem, but just to show you that it CAN be worked successfully, here is a link to an old post of mine on the topic of Premature Ejaculation. Been there, done that, tackled it, solved it. Tuck this link away in a bookmark for later use.
(And it goes to show you that we will discuss just about anything sexual here, that's relevent to solving SSM's!)
-- Bagheera
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007
