Snodderly I knowyou have seen much on these boards....but what percentage would you say that MLC'er ever came back home.....as much as I would love my husband to come back I am not ready mentally or spiritually because he is so different.I dont know him anymore and the person he has become, I dont like very much....just wondering from all you have seen in here....I pray one day I will ready in every way....because I know he will be wounded and hurt because,Iblieve a person does reap what they sow...and it is going to hurthim like it did for me.....funny thing but I wouldnt want that to happen to him.Thank you for your thoughts....