However, your comment about divorced women "using" the kids to stress emotional damage stung a bit. DH pays all the bills and gives me a decent amount of money every month, and sees the kids for hours at a time everyday. YET--he pulls his little disappearing acts and is gone for days at a time with no phone calls, nothing. I think I have every right to complain about emotional damage when my kids are crying themselves to sleep cause Daddy has disappeared again and no one knows where he is.
well I don't see how that applies in your sitch..
for one..you're not divorced...
and two..I said decent men..and I don't think a decent man would pull a disappearing act or have an affair....
and believe me if I would have intended that to be pointed at you Laura..you know you would have known it..beyond a shadow of a doubt..it wasn't towards you..read it again..
