Hey Wolverine, haven't heard from you in a while. Sounds like you are doing well - just where you need to be like astime said.
I have reached the same place where you are. Finally able to drop the rope.
I think you are dead on about you W not realizing what she is doing. Mine is the same way - completely convinced that she is right (that's not new), that the kids will be great cuz we are going to be best buddies (not so fast) and that she will be happier without me. I do not know if she really believes these things or that she has just convinced herself to trust that they will come true. In either case, I know she is headed for trouble. And, unfortunately, there is nothing I can do to stop that train wreck. That's one of the reasons why we have to let go and realize we are going to be ok in the end.
