So it begins to bring my wife home

[MrBond]

After reading your posts, I am just wondering if all of your W's actions are natural because she's so young. I mean, you went out with her for 2 years before you got married, so she was 19. And prior to that, she was M.

I'm not sure if it's a co-dependency issue or if she saw you as a "father-figure". I'm just saying.

It sounds like she has an "idea" of what the right thing is to do, but part of her also wants to sow her oats, so to speak. So she has new friends and is going out. Stuff that a typical 21 y.o. would do. I know you said that she's "mature" for her age, but honestly, at that age we're all learning how to become adults. There's alot of life lessons we learn in our 20's and it's during that time that we go out and experience them.

If you think it's bad now, wait till she hits her quarterlife crisis.

Just my 2 cents.