Well hopefully almost over. L tomorrow and mediation Monday. Still don't know what to wear! And unless I take way less on the child support/alimony than I can afford to and get bills paid, I suspect we'll be arguing that out at final hearing. I guess the good news is hsing and custody prob. won't be a problem.
I saw the C this am. Was good to talk out stuff re: the kids with her. She thinks S15 would get eaten alive in public school. And D9 in a special ed classroom wouldn't be a happy camper either. I would be surprised anyway if H would push for the hour or 2 a day for either of them. I think he really wanted them to be in full-time so I could work full-time.
I do think C for me other than that is kind of a waste. It really made me feel good to hear good stuff about myself when I first started going b/c my self esteem was in the toilet, but don't feel like I need that now. And I feel a lot stronger; she helped a lot with that, but now kind of think I don't need much more help with that.
Helped out at the theater today and will tomorrow. Cool, b/c I'll watch the play from backstage and going to help the kids with quick changes. Warned some of my friends that H was prob. going to be there I would think. At least D9 and I invited him. One of my friends was saying today it took her the longest time to realize that H was D9's dad. They were in a play along with my friend and her daughters a year ago during the start of the PA/bomb, etc. Apparently he never really interacted with D9 during the play/rehearsal. I told her I think he was really focused on the OW at that point; don't think he prob. focused on much else really.
Blue, I did wear the red dress on the last interview I had. Can't wear the purple b/c it's longsleeved & about 100 degrees or hotter here lately.
OK, my weird sense of humor prob. but today I noticed that the Jafar costume in my dd's play was H's costume in the King and I. Jafar is being played by a 12 year old boy, not even big or tall for his age! Karen