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[Faith2010]

Gardener -

Re-hide your small stash (if there's any left after your much-needed upcoming weekend).

Already done! The stash is in case this all doesn't work out and we go our separate ways.

You're doing fine and in his world and his projected playing-out scenario,you're responding in unknown, unanticipated ways and, dammit, You're. Not. Supposed. To. Do. That.

I love it...lol

I forget...is booting his immature butt to the curb not an option?

When we originally talked, I told H I'd have to find a new place because I can't afford the house on my own. H thinks he can but actually, he can't. We agreed to stay under the same roof for three months to try to pay off some bills. I have decided my S and I are staying put. If H wants to separate so bad, H can hit the curb. It is tempting to tell him to get out but financially it will be a real strain for me.

As long as I am away from here, I think the weekend will be great. I am completely and utterly exhausted, emotionally and physically.

I hope your weekend goes well Gardener.