SP sez: "To just be wanted, regardless of the reason why, by another adult, for one day, instead of constantly picking at the scab of our rejection by Who We Thought Was The One."

I so get you. I felt exactly that way for years in my SSM. Perhaps your W felt that way too.

And the circle is formed.

Tragic. And unnecessary, really. She should have forced herself awake and aware, and screamed from the mountaintops before letting her subconscious do all that work on detaching from you.

I feel for all of you.

Lucky