By the way Traveldane,

You asked how I was feeling. I feel good actually. A little satisfied......I think I put him off balance by just being me! Its awesome!!!!

And I feel impotent cuz.......even with that positivity and his second thoughts, he still wants a D before actually trying to work things out.

SIGH!!

Me: 35 , H - 38
M: 3.5 yrs
R: 8 yrs
Separated: 4/28/09
Divorced: 9/11/09