well, just wanted to say I was very surprised when he just leaned down and kissed me.......really didn't see it coming. But, it was just a peck.
I will get in touch with my lawyer tomorrow and start her looking at my paperwork.
Thanks for your support and reply.
HEY TRAVELDANE....I am going to do nothing right now.....I totally am exhausted physically and emotionally. My priorities are myself and my career and other than that.......I will think about it in this next few days and send out the paperwork to a lawyer.
Thank you for the reply........It is really interesting, cuz I feel ok. I think I have really given him pause and that is exactly what I wanted. I just need to decide if I can live with Divorcing him and then starting over. Its a trust issue for me. But, on the other hand, he is willing to try and that is all I asked him for. Its NOT HOW I would want this...but, I really need to figure out if I can be ok with this approach. SIGH.
H is so dramatic. It is up to me to maintain balance in this situation, I think.
It is a difficult decision. But then again, did I really think it was going to be that easy?
