I wouldn't NOT respond to her -- that's just rude.
Are you READY to talk to her? Do you know what you want, what your boundaries would be this time? What would be different?
If you're ready, then meet with her -- but at a time that's convenient for YOU, not her first-offered day/time.
If you're NOT ready, then tell her something like "I'm not ready to discuss this yet; I have some decisions to make. I'll be back in touch later today or tomorrow."
Puppy
thank you Puppy
i'm definately not trying to be rude. but i think you guys were right about me always being there too much when she called and texted.
i can talk to her, i've detached significantly from my sitch and her. i've completely convinced myself she isn't coming back, so i don't really believe that i would say or do anything wrong to push her farther away.
it took her leaving for me to realize i needed to change. it was the catalyst that made it happen. in a way, maybe this would be a catalyst for her too. that's not my intention for sending her my "detachment/letting her go" letter. just letting her know i'm moving forward with my life, and that i can't let my emotions get to me like they have been.
maybe i'll text her back in a bit. she's 2.5 hours away, so meeting to talk wouldn't work very well, BUT that is the way i would like it to be if we did talk. this over the phone BS is getting old.
