WDID,

I read that ebook that GH suggested and I think you should take a look at it first before giving it to your H to see if you agree with it.

It has alot of alpha male behavior in there which might not be in tune with what you want in him.

Just my .02

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER