I would say in time the OP would find out about all the lies on their own and maybe one day will probably have to experience the same pain that we have.

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10