I'm going to go against the group and say go ahead and send the message.
I mean, she obviously wants to get back together with you right? She's going out with another guy, introducing him to your D, goes out on her B-Day without acknowledging you.
All those signs show that she is just begging for you to take her back.
And since you've addressed all the issues she had with you in that long list you showed us. You know, the one that I asked if you ever took another look at since you posted. Especially the one about how she felt you were needy and was like another child to her. It's clear that you've shown her you're not needy. I'm sure there are other things on the list that you've taken care of as well.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.