Is there mediation session set up? Have you chosen the liti-mediator? From my POV, she isn't going to stop being a whack case about that one thing until it is out there on the table and discussed. She is CLEARLY very agitated about the money issue and it would be best to stop shying around the issue for both of you.
I know you got other sad things on your plate, but trust me, the longer you don't sit down to discuss this, the worse her mind is going to be on it.
Sooner the better.
(and that still doesn't mean there isn't a possible 11th hour change of heart - as you know from Greek and Coach)
