WooHoo, Jeff!!! Good for you!! I think it's OK to put your best foot forward when it comes to meeting someone (i.e. the flowers on the first date). It shows you feel they deserve the effort, and anybody that would think suspiciously of something like that is not someone you would want anyway.
However, also remember that you are a great guy and just be yourself!! That is more than enough to dazzler her! ((((hugs))))
TJ
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