Over the Shock and GALing 6

[Thinker]

So who is her counsel? Who does she go to to talk and seek advice from? I would wish there were someone in her circle who would say, "Hey there, it sure sounds like life is hell for you. Time to do some self care and make a move."

She talks to a lot of friends and also to her Sisters.

There is one (divorced, independently wealthy) BFF who I would believe is saying "Leave, You need it, You deserve it" - But I don't know this for a fact.

I know that for the most part her Sisters are saying "Go back to work full time to build a career for yourself, work out your issues, decide to be happy" I know because she isn't listening to them to their satisfaction and one of them started venting to me. (I didn't vent back)

Mrs Thinker has also told me that "everyone" ie her sisters and many of her friends are telling her "What!! You have 3 small kids and a H who loves you and you want to get D'd!! Are you freakin' Crazy!!"

The only thing keeping her from being happy in the life she chose is her (true for all of us). Like I said before, she's trapped herself.

I know. I also know I can't be the one to tell her that.