My humble opinion is...that's what you hired lawyers for. Let them do that dirty work - money esp. It never ends well otherwise.
Whenever I brought up that kind of thing with Coach, he would tell me that he wouldn't discuss legal things with me. Period. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. But he was right.
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08