Over the Shock and GALing 6

[Thinker]

Agreed Greek - Thanks for the feedback.

I have certainly thought the words, but never said them. It's not really me, although once thought, it's easier for words to come out if you get angry in a fight.

The thought mostly seems to come up after listening to my W go on ad on about the pressure she is under because: (in her mindreading)
- I am in love with her, and
- I think we could be happy together, and
- I want her to stay just to make me happy, because
- it is what I want, and
- I don't care what she wants, but
- she does not love me, and
- she doesn't want to stay in the M (but I am pressuring her to do so), and
- she is not happy (but I don't care about that because am thinking only about what I want), and...

And after a while I just want to say "How do you know what I wan't and how I feel. I haven't said any of those things in months and have never said some of them (ie I don't care how she feels). If you want to go, I'm not trapping you - just go."

But for now, I just listen and understand that she is venting. I do think she is projecting a lot of the pressure that she feels onto me, when I am not really applying that pressure.