I did not mean to suggest that he do it. I do however wonder what it is that shakes the WAS into some awareness, alertness, movement in some direction. If and when the LBS gets to the point of wanting some motivational event is obviously personal and distinct to each situation.
I guess, I'm thinking, a year or two on, the WAS is not taking legal action or moving out, just stagnating...the LBS gets fed up. It seems in some of these sitches the LBS's actions are the catalyst for resolution one way or the other.
