Almost done, hiphip hooray!!! I am so almost done too that its not even funny. And I do think that comes from realizing how much we're really worth. Our H's are the ones losing out on a great person. They are the ones who will be left with crazy OW. Mdoodles, we need to celebrate our worth here. We are the good women. Someone told me once I that shouldn't forget that I'm the jewel and its true. And the same goes for you. Your H is not the jewel and certainly OW who needs her papers is not the jewel, you are!!! I find that I was so caught up and focused on saving my M that I forgot to celebrate and focus on how great I am. Just the other day i realized that every morning I was waking up and the first thing I was say is "I hate my life." And that was awful. I have a good life and am extremely blessed. My H knows it too that's why he is so scared now of losing me. You are better off than you realize. Once the clouds pass, you'll realize that the sun was always there shining.

almostdone... I love the kitchen analogy!!!!