"I don't give a flying F--- whether you D or not. If you are going to be this miserable, then leave!!"
I can't help but wonder what would actually happen if you said that (or some version of that)...
I've wondered that myself... and recently I've come close to be able to say it and mean it.
What keeps me from saying it is realizing and remembering how much pain she is in as well.
It might shock her and free her up a bit, because she still feels pressure because she believes that I am desperately clinging to the R - her memory of some of the discussions we had months ago still fresh in her mind.
On the other hand, it might hurt her so that she does something that she does not really want to do - takes actions to proceed when she is in reality sitting on the fence.
Last edited by Thinker; 06/25/0904:35 PM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
