Oh yeah, she is correct in that I still keep in touch with someone I dated for a few months in grad school 10 years ago. I have never lied about it. I hear you on the truthfulness thing - can't play the game if I am not playing by the rules.
Not saying you can't talk to her. But yes, honesty is the ONLY way now.
A lot of this is projection.....she is trying to blame you for the things she may be doing.
It is normal for this, that is why it is imperative for honesty to be at the forefront of your thoughts when dealing with her.
It would really suck to let her guilt off the hook by something that YOU did.....
