You still have time. You are so new to this. Don't lose hope. I mean that, really, despite what H might have said. Just my 2 cents.
Wifey,
I know... H had a few things to say during MC yesterday that did give me hope... I just have to give him time...
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011