Why the "LOL"? Is it only natural that once I detach I start enjoying my freedom & get sick of the drama WAS creates? I think this is where I'm at now. H has called everyday on his way home from work - "to see how the kids are doing" - (although he never asks to talk to them). Yesterday he called & didn't leave a message. Normally I'm so happy he called. Now I'm just like - UGH, I don't want to deal with him. Although to keep the momentum going, I think I should be mirroring his actions...so I sent him a text on my way home from going out last night - AT 2:30 AM HIS TIME LOL saying Hey I'll call you tomorrow.
Actually, what I meant was to help some of your fellow DB'ers reach where you are on this detachment phase......
Oh yea, once you start dropping the rope, their attention picks up a notch...
