"Power is sexy"....yes, I think that is how I saw my OM. I compared him to my H and I saw OM as "powerful" in some crazy way. I can look back at it all and see just how "sick" in the head I was!
Instead of allowing your mind to wander off into "What is Husband Doing" land while you are on your trip......focus on you and the short amount of time you will have with your D. Make it count! Make wonderful memories while you are there and don't allow thoughts of H & OW spoil your time with D. He is worth it and OW certainly isn't. Does your D know about the stitch? I hope you won't ruin your time by discussing all the problems. I know it would be hard "not" to discuss it, but on the other hand, it could sure pull your spirits down.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!